Does My Ex Want To Get Back Together With Me
If you have recently broken up with your ex boyfriend, then you are probably asking your self "Does my ex want to get back together with me?". The most important question you should ask yourself first is..."Do I care if I get back together with my ex?". If a resounding "YES" is the answer to that question, then you can start worrying about what your ex really wants.
A lot of people never venture deep down to find out why a relationship ended. In the case of a divorce, it is amazing the amount of people who really have no idea why their marriage ended.
Everyone knows that it takes two to break up a relationship,regardless of the fact that it is very easy to blame the other person. Even when someone else has an affair, it isn't always 100% their fault. Don't get me wrong, I am not condoning anyone being unfaithful, but sometimes people are pushed into things, or at least feel like they are. If you take your man or woman for granted and forget to pay them any attention, they may end up looking somewhere else. There are some people who have affairs just because they can get away with it. They do it just for the thrill. But sometimes, a relationship is worth saving and the affair, while it was hurtful, can eventually strengthen the bonds between the couple.
Examining why a couple broke up will help both parties understand the issues in their relationship. It will highlight those areas that require work. All partnerships involve work and commitment. Men and women often appear to live on different planets (Remember Mars and Venus?)and appear to speak completely different languages.
While it is the physical attraction that initially attracts men and women, it is their compatibility that will keep them together long after the physical flame resembles a dying out candle, as opposed to a flame thrower. So before you start wondering how your ex partner is feeling, you need to be certain of your own wants and desires. Are you sure that this person is right for you? Do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with them? Do you want the same things out of life, like kids, traveling, similar standard of living etc? Do you share the same ideals, morals, and views about how to live your life?
It is very important to first establish if you would like to try again. Knowing what you want will help you to work out what your ex wants. Despite what Hollywood and other entertainment providers would have you believe, men want stable happy relationships just as much as women. Generally the male is not as good as vocalizing what he wants and can finish a relationship rather than have to deal with a bad patch.
The bottom line is: instead of wasting time trying to answer does my ex want to get back together with me, why not invite him round for coffee and a little small talk, and see what happens.
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