Getting dumped by your boyfriend is painful, and the pain extends beyond the initial breakup if you are still in love with him.. You may be desperately trying to find help on how to get your ex boyfriend back and following the tips I am going to outline for you will be a great start to winning him back.
The absolute worst thing you can do is to act desperate. Being desperate and needy labels you as high maintenance and out of control. This is one of the big no no's with guys because they never know how you are going to act in a situation or react to a situation. If you want to drive your ex boyfriend away as quickly as possible, then acting needy and desperate is a sure ticket to reaching that goal. Since you are still in love with your ex boyfriend, then you need to at least appear that you are not needy and desperate.
Another thing you should avoid at all costs is to appear that you are too readily available to your ex boyfriend. Show him that you have confidence in your self and high self esteem by getting out and about, instead of sitting at home obsessing over the situation. Make sure that your ex boyfriend understands that you are taking the break up in stride, and that if you two were to get back together, it will be on an even playing field.
Another problem with acting needy and too readily available is that you set yourself up to be used by your ex boyfriend if you got back together, or by someone else. Confidence is everything, and a healthy dose of it will ward off those that are looking to use you, including your ex boyfriend.
Another step to take is to make sure you are taking of yourself and looking good when you are out. If you don't usually eat healthy, start now. If you don't usually work out, start exercising now. Make sure you look good when you go out anywhere. Don't overindulge in alcohol. Even if you can't get your ex boyfriend back, taking care of yourself will give your self esteem a huge boost.
Everything that I have outlined for you works best if you use it all in concert. Don't try to use just bits and pieces, put everything together and you will be well on your way to a confident attitude and an understanding of how to get your ex back.
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