So, your ex walked out on you. Now what?
To get an ex back that has left you isn't rocket science by any means. Whether they walked out days or weeks ago, you will still use the same plan to try to restart the relationship. To get your ex back only requires you to be determined and to be sincere.
The first thing you are going to do is try to figure out what went wrong, and what role you played in the break up. You are not going to play the blame game,you are going to figure out what you have to do to apologize. Remember, it takes two to tango, so you will need to be honest with yourself about your role in the break up and take your share of the blame.
Once you have determined what went wrong, you are ready to formulate your apology. An effective apology consists of two parts: an explanation of why you are sorry and an explanation of how you are going to make sure that whatever events transpired don't occur again. If you can get both of these parts right, you will have an effective apology and could be well on your way to repairing your relationship.
If you take the time to explain to your ex about why you are sorry for what happened, it means you took the time to figure out what behavior your ex found so distasteful. If you can't figure this out on your own without taking your own side, then you should have a trusted friend or a professional help you work this out. Another "set of eyes" will help you look at the situation from your ex's point of view, and this is a key ingredient in your apology.
The second part of your apology, as stated above, is your plan to ensure that the situation doesn't occur again. Your plan should be well thought out and, once again, show no favoritism to either you or your ex. Your ex will, at the very least, be impressed that you have taken the time to think things through and that you are sincere.
If you follow this plan and deliver a sincere apology, you stand a very good chance of restarting your relationship with your ex.
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