tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45446168713181651292024-03-13T09:29:46.427-07:00Get My Ex Back TodayRelationship Advice On How To Get Your Ex BackMarcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comBlogger80125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-28703541212498795622010-01-21T05:21:00.000-08:002010-01-21T05:45:45.562-08:00Does My Ex Want To Get Back Together With Me<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIgqMXWg5gUUpCVnA9UFB0vbWNLpwzlt7QO7n8jjBRdn5hWPpuNBi-luiuDgYipquQI58tSJESs4nsWpOHiXbz9fEKlGetd55oCHgujiYIum64fpB2BhU4A6cPVX7MkPgSOEOtVo6lYZvD/s1600-h/happycouple9.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIgqMXWg5gUUpCVnA9UFB0vbWNLpwzlt7QO7n8jjBRdn5hWPpuNBi-luiuDgYipquQI58tSJESs4nsWpOHiXbz9fEKlGetd55oCHgujiYIum64fpB2BhU4A6cPVX7MkPgSOEOtVo6lYZvD/s400/happycouple9.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5429188755578746290" /></a><br /><strong>Does My Ex Want To Get Back Together With Me</strong><br /><br />If you have recently broken up with your ex boyfriend, then you are probably asking your self "<strong>Does my ex want to get back together with me</strong>?". The most important question you should ask yourself first is..."<strong>Do I care if I get back together with my ex</strong>?". If a resounding "YES" is the answer to that question, then you can start worrying about what your ex really wants.<br /><br />A lot of people never venture deep down to find out why a relationship ended. In the case of a divorce, it is amazing the amount of people who really have no idea why their marriage ended.<br /><br />Everyone knows that <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/It_Takes_Two_(song)">it takes two</a> to break up a relationship,regardless of the fact that it is very easy to blame the other person. Even when someone else has an affair, it isn't always 100% their fault. Don't get me wrong, I am not condoning anyone being unfaithful, but sometimes people are pushed into things, or at least feel like they are. If you take your man or woman for granted and forget to pay them any attention, they may end up looking somewhere else. There are some people who have affairs just because they can get away with it. They do it just for the thrill. But sometimes, a relationship is worth saving and the affair, while it was hurtful, can eventually strengthen the bonds between the couple.<br /><br />Examining why a couple broke up will help both parties understand the issues in their relationship. It will highlight those areas that require work. All partnerships involve work and commitment. Men and women often appear to live on different planets (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_Mars,_Women_Are_from_Venus">Remember Mars and Venus</a>?)and appear to speak completely different languages. <br /><br />While it is the physical attraction that initially attracts men and women, it is their compatibility that will keep them together long after the physical flame resembles a dying out candle, as opposed to a flame thrower. So before you start wondering how your ex partner is feeling, you need to be certain of your own wants and desires. Are you sure that this person is right for you? Do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with them? Do you want the same things out of life, like kids, traveling, similar standard of living etc? Do you share the same ideals, morals, and views about how to live your life?<br /><br />It is very important to first establish if you would like to try again. Knowing what you want will help you to <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">work out what your ex wants</a>. Despite what Hollywood and other entertainment providers would have you believe, men want stable happy relationships just as much as women. Generally the male is not as good as vocalizing what he wants and can finish a relationship rather than have to deal with a bad patch. <br /><br />The bottom line is: instead of wasting time trying to answer <strong>does my ex want to get back together with me</strong>, why not invite him round for coffee and a little small talk, and see what happens.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p><br /><br />**************<br /><br /><a href="http://get-my-ex-back-today.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-to-win-back-love-of-lifetime.html">How To Win Back A Love Of A Lifetime</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-34771929610086513392010-01-17T08:05:00.000-08:002010-01-17T08:19:59.648-08:00What To Do When Your Ex Has Just Broken Up With You<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5Spe_6jsuLbmo8hjNgkmnUWKQcV30OfuX_qM3gwvzLKKa7LcZG7RCpruTlxD3SC-65puKC_DDscTL1QivrXaN1sGVq0ExT1uySpIgAOMdqwDXNov4FdoL2ihi2__fY5UEUfiyDwiIg1YK/s1600-h/happycouple7.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5Spe_6jsuLbmo8hjNgkmnUWKQcV30OfuX_qM3gwvzLKKa7LcZG7RCpruTlxD3SC-65puKC_DDscTL1QivrXaN1sGVq0ExT1uySpIgAOMdqwDXNov4FdoL2ihi2__fY5UEUfiyDwiIg1YK/s400/happycouple7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5427743839385103394" /></a><br /><strong>What To Do When Your Ex Has Just Broken Up With You</strong><br /><br /><br />It is human nature for you to panic <strong>when your ex has just broken up with you</strong>. Actually, you will feel a range of emotions-from panic to anger, to hurt, and everything in between.<br /><br />So what can you do when you have just <strong>experienced a break up</strong>, but you are sure that you <strong>want to get back with your ex</strong>? whatever you do,don't waste time trying to <strong>get revenge on your ex</strong>,you will only end up hurting yourself. But if you really want your ex back, and feel that it was your behavior, or something you did, that caused the break up, there a couple of things you can do.<br /><br />The first one is to let your ex know how you feel. Write a letter, apologizing for any bad behavior and reminding your ex of the good times you shared together. Don't be afraid to tell your ex how much they mean to you and how much you miss them.<br /><br />Assuming you get a positive response to your letter, agree to meet your ex but do so in a public place. This will help prevent your discussions turning into a huge argument. You will need to be prepared to tell your ex exactly how you feel. Don't hide your feelings. If you are angry tell them why but try not to turn the meeting into a blame fest. <br /><br />This will not help you in convincing them that you two are good together. Keep the conversation to facts and also use the word I and not you. For example you should say "I feel let down" rather than "you let me down". This is a lot less confrontational and less likely to cause offence or lead to another argument.<br /><br />Allow your ex to criticise you as well. It is best if this is done in a constructive way. We all have our faults and some of your less attractive character traits may be, in part, to blame for why they broke up with you.<br /><br />It is very important that you listen to what your ex says. Don't assume you know what they are trying to say. Encourage them to say what is on their mind as this is the opportunity for both of you to work through any issues in your relationship and come out of this a stronger couple. Your ex may have made the decision to break up, but your behaviour probably contributed to their decision.<br /><br />Do not play games and don't feel that you have to hold something back in order to make your ex come back to you. This will only cause feelings of resentment which may lead to you splitting up again. Don't look at a breakup as a negative. All couples go through good and bad patches. It is a common event in many adult relationships. <br /><br />Follow these tips and one day, as a happy couple again, you may actually be thankful for the day you found out that <strong>your ex has just broken up with you</strong>.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p><br /><br />***************<br /><br /><strong><a href="http://get-my-ex-back-today.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-to-get-back-with-your-ex-when-all.html">How To Get Back With Your Ex When All Looks Lost</a></strong>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-2814203942413299512010-01-10T07:42:00.001-08:002010-01-10T07:49:06.475-08:00Need Some Tips On Making Up With A Boyfriend<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh851bqFEQXUaa_hyaH8KaKm4TfLGE4qCE357dYN5LJyEhq3ZUTyVt3L9G1_DHFP-azUV1bRQJP34tO26PH3SQA2z274G2YgMzKBYcuv8zfUvjXryX-qZ2kAns8GGa4XamUMUov4ZIcMW7W/s1600-h/happycouple5.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 269px; height: 400px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh851bqFEQXUaa_hyaH8KaKm4TfLGE4qCE357dYN5LJyEhq3ZUTyVt3L9G1_DHFP-azUV1bRQJP34tO26PH3SQA2z274G2YgMzKBYcuv8zfUvjXryX-qZ2kAns8GGa4XamUMUov4ZIcMW7W/s400/happycouple5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5425137258127856818" /></a><br />Do you <strong>need some tips on making up with a boyfriend</strong>? Here are a few tips from an older and wiser friend. They have worked for hundreds of women, so hopefully they should work for you too.<br /><br />1) Men don't like chit chat: Generally speaking men don’t like to talk in depth about their feelings and forcing the issue will just cause them to clam up even more. So when you are trying to get back together, don’t force him to analyze what went wrong. If he behaved badly but is willing to apologize, accept it and move on. <br /><br />2) Men can only concentrate on one thing at a time. This is really true so don’t try and fight it. Very few men can multitask and it is their genetics that are to blame so shouting at him is pointless. The sooner you accept that your man cannot listen to you while reading his newspaper or watching TV the better. Most of the time, he is not ignoring you on purpose. The more you try to understand that this is the way he is programmed the less arguments you will have.<br /><br />3) Men like toys. The joke is that men never grow up and show it by still playing with toys. Most men love to build things and start DIY jobs. Not all of them like to finish these jobs which can cause problems at home. Let your man indulge his hobbies, within reason. You can spend time with your girlfriends while he is fishing or building a boat. By compromising like this, he will probably be much more willing to spend time with you doing things together that you both enjoy.<br /><br />4) Don’t assume that your man knows that you want to make up with him. Men in general tend to be a bit slow in picking up signals especially about relationships. For this reason, you sometimes need to be very direct and tell them exactly how you feel. Men don't like games unless they understand the rules like in <a href="http://www.golf.com/golf/">Golf</a> or <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chess">Chess</a>. Us women change the rules on dating more often than men change their shirts so we need to give them a break if they get a little confused. <br /><br />5) Have you heard the joke - "Why does it take loads of sperm to fertilize one egg? Because they refuse to stop for directions!" I know the men in my life would prefer to get lost, than admit defeat and stop to ask for directions. Generally men find it very hard to admit they are wrong. If you question what they say, they can believe you are implying they have done something wrong. This can cause problems in modern relationships as women are so used to being the boss at work and giving others directions. <br /><br />I am not suggesting that women have to become door mats or defer to their partners. But a little understanding of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetics">genetics</a> goes a long way to help resolve the question of <strong>making up with a boyfriend</strong>.<br /><br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p><br /><br /><br />**************<br /><br /><a href="http://get-my-ex-back-today.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-to-win-your-ex-back-using-simple.html">How To Win Your Ex Back Using Simple Reverse Psychology</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-23971606702778522912010-01-09T04:16:00.000-08:002010-01-09T04:45:10.960-08:00How To Go Get An Ex Back The Right Way<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQ1tuQ4LR4Y1-BG_w0yH1dkvHnQ-OgLRX-R2JrY5OGGrK4kGZTdfUoC2F8YBROyjNAdIHU4LP80b6N3M_tV_K2xgWLWJrmwGSGLNJtSj5N626FmKv9zjWxTXd_qv5ivNXDl4ijCWgWgGRg/s1600-h/happycouple3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 312px; height: 240px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQ1tuQ4LR4Y1-BG_w0yH1dkvHnQ-OgLRX-R2JrY5OGGrK4kGZTdfUoC2F8YBROyjNAdIHU4LP80b6N3M_tV_K2xgWLWJrmwGSGLNJtSj5N626FmKv9zjWxTXd_qv5ivNXDl4ijCWgWgGRg/s400/happycouple3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5424716019573759810" /></a><br /><strong>How To Go Get An Ex Back The Right Way</strong><br /><br /><strong>How to get an ex back</strong> is a question many lovers who have had a relationship ask, and the answers are surprisingly quite simple. First and foremost, if you were to blame for the breakup, then you are going to have to apologize for whatever you did to cause it. Remember the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Golden_Rule_(ethics)">golden rule</a> about treating others as you would like to be treated? That applies here too. Sometimes we treat minor acquaintances better than we treat those close to us, and that is the highway to a failed relationship.<br /><br />So, the first thing you need to do is <a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Apologize">apologize</a>, if the breakup was your fault.<br /><br />Say you are sorry and mean it. Don't just say it to <strong>get your ex back</strong> but mean it regardless of what the future holds for you. Arrange a meeting with your ex to discuss what went wrong and see if you do have a future together. You should agree some basic ground rules or else you run the risk of it turning into a blame fest. <br /><br />The first rule is that both of you should be there because you want to be not because you are being <strong><a href="http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/132142">emotionally blackmailed</a></strong>. This is particularly true if you have kids together as one partner can often put pressure on the other to stay together for the sake of the children. Believe me, most kids would prefer to have two different families than to witness two people tearing each other apart.<br /><br />The second rule should be that you are not getting together to have an argument - if either party gets abusive then the meeting is over. You are there to have a discussion about your relationship and see if you would both like to take it forward. It may be helpful to set a time limit for each person to talk about how they are feeling. When they are talking the other person should be listening.<br /><br />This is a time for you both to express what you like about each other and what parts of your life together could do with a little work. Perhaps you never get to spend time alone together so an idea may be that you have a date night once a week or a fortnight. This is a night where it is just the two of you and all talk of kids, mortgage, debts etc is banned. This would be your time as a couple to try to relight the forces of attraction that brought you together in the first place.<br /><br />You will probably find that both of you are finding the same issues difficult. You both probably miss spending quality time together and you may both be under financial and emotional pressure. Sometimes life gets in the way and we often expect our partners to become mind readers and be able to see a problem without us saying anything. We don’t tend to make time in our lives to really talk to our spouse. It is never too late to start.<br /><br />Now when you are asked how to go <strong>get an ex back</strong>, you will be able to say that communication and quality time together are the keys to lifelong happiness.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p><br /><br />***************<br /><a href="http://get-my-ex-back-today.blogspot.com/2009/09/how-to-apologize-to-get-ex-back.html"><br />How To Apologize To Get An Ex Back</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-81448562513141142452010-01-06T03:45:00.000-08:002010-01-06T03:56:03.901-08:00How To Keep A Woman Happy<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNLrUeWUVaKxvmcPEM8IdM_Qd4RNCX_zyfapW8QQ47HyWOfPJFo7gTYm3a7n-gDoNETiBx4vJJIa45wR41mJD5DFhhFt54CsCDj2ky0_xrIZDE0ubMTC2kokumgDNzpYl9I3AJKUMHDLsc/s1600-h/woman+in+bathtub.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 313px;"alt="woman in bathtub" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNLrUeWUVaKxvmcPEM8IdM_Qd4RNCX_zyfapW8QQ47HyWOfPJFo7gTYm3a7n-gDoNETiBx4vJJIa45wR41mJD5DFhhFt54CsCDj2ky0_xrIZDE0ubMTC2kokumgDNzpYl9I3AJKUMHDLsc/s400/woman+in+bathtub.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5423594005665900562" /></a><br /><strong>How To Keep Your Woman Happy</strong><br /><br />One of the age old questions and biggest mysteries in life is "how to keep your woman happy". Actually, it really isn't a mystery at all, but men tend to make it into one. <strong>How to keep a woman happy</strong> is actually quite easy, all you have to do is learn to do the little things, and get yourself in tune with your woman's needs.<br /><br />Everyone is different, so the first thing you are going to have to do is figure out what your girlfriend/wife/lover likes and doesn't like. A little research is the key to finding out <strong>how to keep a woman happy</strong>.<br /><br />A Woman sometimes just needs to talk. Men are programmed to find solutions to every problem but sometimes we just want you to listen to us. We don't want you to look after us or solve every issue we raise but just to listen.<br /><br />Yes I know she can spend two hours on the phone to a friend that she is meeting that afternoon anyway. This goes back to the days of cavemen. While the men were out hunting, the women were at home where their ability to bond with others was directly proportionate to their chances of survival. They depended on the other women to look after them and their families should they fall sick. Childbirth in those days often resulted in a death sentence for these women. <br /><br />Women like to go to the toilets in twos and threes. It is just a girl thing and the sooner you come to accept it the better. Don't get paranoid, we are not going to discuss you in detail - that will happen tomorrow.<br /><br />Buy your woman flowers. But rather than buying her a bunch of roses, send her one of her favorite flowers every so often. This way she will know that you are thinking of her rather than just making a grand gesture.<br /><br />Little things mean a lot to most women. So regardless of the fact that you are working 60 plus hours per week, always find time to phone her at least twice a day. Call her to say that you miss her and then call her back later on to tell her what time you expect to be home. Remember, little things are the key to<strong> how to keep a woman happy</strong>.<br /><br />Say thank you when she does something ordinary. Everyone including women like to be appreciated so if you come home and it is obvious she has cleaned the bathroom, notice it, thank her for it, and make an effort to keep it clean. That means helping your towel to find its way off the bathroom floor.<br /><br />If your woman has had a hard day at the office, run her a hot bath and hand her a glass of chilled wine whilst you put the kids to bed and prepare dinner. <br /><br />Surprise her with a note under her pillow telling her how much you love her or appreciate her. Ok she will probably assume you have done something wrong and wonder if you are feeling guilty but underneath she will be pleased.<br /><br /><strong>How to keep a woman happy </strong>involves doing the little things in life just that little bit more.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-51206421782371256162010-01-05T03:48:00.000-08:002010-01-05T03:56:25.712-08:00Should I Get Back Together With My Ex Boyfriend?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4aCXyRFJYwszHcgH_8hogmx3a2zm1XYR0GqbpB2P2O4ijvqWVMPbafklw0Y_yUAnou0po_dWbqKnmhZNvphaTu82jU-xRSHFKMgDvKXU394wSs3ZqAkzcUSjMVf2TUUBOAFQQ9ZXZ-pvF/s1600-h/happycouple7.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4aCXyRFJYwszHcgH_8hogmx3a2zm1XYR0GqbpB2P2O4ijvqWVMPbafklw0Y_yUAnou0po_dWbqKnmhZNvphaTu82jU-xRSHFKMgDvKXU394wSs3ZqAkzcUSjMVf2TUUBOAFQQ9ZXZ-pvF/s400/happycouple7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5423222990316433842" /></a><br /><strong>Should I Get Back Together With My Ex Boyfriend</strong><br /><br />There are 4 things you should consider if you are asking yourself the question "<strong>Should I get back together with my ex boyfriend</strong>?" The answer to this question really depends on these things: both your ages, how long the two of you were together, why you broke up, and what BOTH of you want in the long term.<br /><br />Before we go over the four reasons above, you should also ask yourself why you are even asking the question "<strong>should I get back together with my ex boyfriend</strong>?". If you are asking this question, then there is some kind of lingering doubt, and you might want to take some time to sort this out in your mind and your heart before you figure out <strong>how to get your ex back</strong>.<br /><br />Why is age important? Some people met their first love in their early teens and become convinced that this is the only person in the world that matters. For some it works out really well and years later they are celebrating their 50th year together. But for most of us, our passionate youthful infatuations are not real love and we go on to meet our true soul mates. So if you are very young and have just split up with your first boyfriend, you should probably try dating some other guys first to see whether Mr Ex is in fact Mr Right as opposed to Mr Right now. If you have dated a load of men and this man is your ideal mate, then you should make every effort to get back together with him.<br /><br />How long you were together will also play a part in whether you should make up or not. A couple who have been together a couple of weeks do not know each other that well despite what they may think. The sexual attraction between couples in the early stages of a romance can often blind you to the fact that your partner is not a candidate for a lifelong happy relationship. Emotions run very high in the early days and you could find yourself splitting up on a weekly basis. If this is the case, it is often a sign that there is no future for you at this point in time.<br /><br />If you have been together for years, you may have split up because you have taken each other for granted. Couples drift apart as life gets in the way. You often find that you spend more quality time with your neighbors and friends than you do with your significant other. Illness, stress and financial worries can also play a part. If you have been together forever and have suddenly split up, then you should make every effort to sit down and discuss your relationship to see is it worth saving. Sometimes, sadly it isn't but at least you will know that you have made every effort.<br /><br />Why you broke up will partly determine whether you should get back together or not. If you and you ex boyfriend have split because of a silly misunderstanding then you should try getting back together. It is pointless letting your pride stop you from saying sorry if you acted childishly. If on the other hand you have split up due to lies, deceit, fraud or an affair, the decision to get back together is a lot more difficult.<br /><br />Ultimately it depends on what both of you want. You cannot force someone else to love you even if you do resort to emotional blackmail. Saying I want to get back together with my ex boyfriend is easily achievable if he also wants this to happen.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back and instant help by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-89924689272153342592010-01-04T07:23:00.000-08:002010-01-04T07:25:58.992-08:00Help Me Get My Ex Girlfriend BackIf you have ever heard the old saying, "It's a woman's perogative to change her mind", then you are probably wondering what's up with men? A lot of my friends have broken up with their girlfriend for the most ridiculous reasons, and only weeks later are asking "Help me get my ex girlfriend back"!<br /><br />Why do they do this?<br /><br />For some reason, a lot of men never seem to realize when they have a good thing going. A wink from the new barmaid at their favorite bar has been known to urge some men I know to break up with their current girlfriend, and then try running back to her within days.<br /><br />I always tell my men friends that they need to make a list before they break up with their partners. On one side of the list, you put her good points. Do you find her interesting? Does she look after you? Does she cook for you? Does she laugh at your jokes? Are you attracted to her?<br /><br />On the other side of the list, they can put the things that anger them. Ok she may nag at little too much but then if you put the toilet seat down she might stop. She may not want more than a cuddle every evening but five times a week doesn't mean that she isn't caring enough.<br /><br />Writing the good and bad points of your life together down on paper may seem like a cold approach but it is a very practical way of seeing what a great relationship you do/did have. You need to compare the two lists and decide if you should be breaking up with this woman. If you are doing it after the event, it also helps to clarify if you made the right decision to finish the relationship. Sometimes we regret breaking up as we end up feeling lonely. But loneliness is not a reason to get back together.<br /><br />If you have dumped the lady in your life but now know it was the wrong decision you need to act fast. Great life partners do not grow on trees. She has shown that she will put up with you in all your glory - how many women would be mad enough to do that? <br /><br />Put some romance back into her life. Send her flowers - not a bunch of red roses but some of her favorites. Send her a handwritten letter telling her how much you love her and miss her. Book her favorite restaurant and treat her to a night out. In short, you need to treat her just like the princess you believe her to be and assuming you are not a complete disgrace, you won't have ask, "Help me get my ex girlfriend back".<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-1039811218330533672010-01-01T07:07:00.000-08:002010-01-01T07:10:38.493-08:00How To Win An Ex Boyfriend Back In 7 Easy Steps<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3tGYD9g0Cp_45gJUXxTZ0mJYjqJLoENXa_vBzLtdspDALQ7gheYOYDyOhTPqGs1DLI_EaPITR6FjJvfevyWXQGmFBuDxbEoM41kVyNq4AnTRvgHpiBE4KTslnj1c-BqTb3w3YmBm5kU6j/s1600-h/happycouple5.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 269px; height: 400px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3tGYD9g0Cp_45gJUXxTZ0mJYjqJLoENXa_vBzLtdspDALQ7gheYOYDyOhTPqGs1DLI_EaPITR6FjJvfevyWXQGmFBuDxbEoM41kVyNq4AnTRvgHpiBE4KTslnj1c-BqTb3w3YmBm5kU6j/s400/happycouple5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421788601137484050" /></a><br />If your guy has just dumped you, there are 7 easy steps to <strong>win an ex boyfriend back</strong>. Some of these may seem a little off the wall, and not quite what you were expecting, but if you follow these steps to the letter you will have a <strong>good chance of getting your ex boyfriend back</strong>. <br /><br />1. <strong>Do you really want him back</strong>? Okay, this may seem like a strange step to go through, but it is really important. Your boyfriend may seem indispensible, but you can move on without him. If he’s someone worth keeping, read on. But if he’s just “any old guy” don’t hang on for the sake of hanging on. Remember the old saying , “there are plenty of fish in the sea.”<br /><br />2. Think about <strong>why you broke up</strong>. Think carefully about what he said when he dumped you. Also think back to the things he said to you in the days right before you broke up. He may have indicated that you were too clingy or that you had let yourself go. If he wants you to change, you have to decide whether you want to be the girlfriend he wants to have.<br /><br />3. Don’t bug him. Sometimes, girls think that they should call or text their ex boyfriend a lot, hoping that showing how much they love their guy will get him back. Instead, you should give him some space. This will let both of you evaluate the relationship. If you are in school together, you don’t need to go out of your way to avoid him, but don’t chase him down either.<br /><br />4. Don’t manipulate him. You may be tempted to flirt with his friends, for instance, in an attempt to make him jealous. More likely, it will just make him annoyed and put him off you. He may even think you are acting slutty. So, stay away from doing manipulative actions.<br /><br />5. Play hard to get. Don’t let him think that he can wiggle his little finger and you will come rushing to his side. Let him squirm a little bit. Remember guys like the chase. <br /><br />6. Don’t send friends as emissaries. It’s common for girls to send their girlfriends to “feel out” your ex. But this just annoys guys. If you are going to communicate something to him, do it yourself. Don’t put him in the awkward position of having to explain his feelings to your friends.<br /><br />7. Don’t get worried about a new girlfriend. It’s probably just a rebound relationship. It is not uncommon for a guy to hook up with a new girl right after he has broken up with you. But these rebound relationships rarely last. It is very possible that he will come back to you after he has some time to work things out. In the meantime, become everything he wants in a girl. Get gorgeous. Be friendly. Be happy. These things will pry him away from the good time girl and back into your arms.<br /><br />Many girls don’t know <strong>how to win ex boyfriend back</strong>. They do it all wrong and end up pushing him away instead. When you follow the seven steps in this article, you will be able to come out a winner in the game of love.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-53701747635172027532009-12-28T05:02:00.000-08:002009-12-28T05:27:54.129-08:00Love Break Up-How To Handle A Breakup With Your Boyfriend<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8NxFXHCqApQ1MkU5wyjwpk9ccpb2L32RF979hX-zJzQ1aP2q1Lc0fYTojcQevCmG2DEnRJwbtsAlYVZZFSHd0rT_fcqraHX9ADS6_sqV-43TGlLF9_e-rLQ9dWwmyEFkMXExYORagMH96/s1600-h/happycouple7.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8NxFXHCqApQ1MkU5wyjwpk9ccpb2L32RF979hX-zJzQ1aP2q1Lc0fYTojcQevCmG2DEnRJwbtsAlYVZZFSHd0rT_fcqraHX9ADS6_sqV-43TGlLF9_e-rLQ9dWwmyEFkMXExYORagMH96/s400/happycouple7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420276124519002914" /></a><br /><strong>Love Break Up-How To Handle A Breakup With Your Boyfriend</strong><br /><br /><br /><br />Are you in <strong>love</strong>? <strong>Break</strong> up with your boyfriend can be the most devastating thing in your life if you were truly in love. How can you get through this situation?<br /><br />First of all, you need to determine whether the relationship is truly over. There are a number of ways to <strong>get an ex boyfriend back</strong>.<br /><br />You don’t want to chase him. You want to give him some space, especially in the first days after a <strong>break up</strong>. So, don’t pester him with calls or texts. Instead, let him call you.<br /><br />If he doesn’t contact you right away, don’t stress about it. Instead, after about a week, call him yourself. But, keep it casual. Don’t go all weepy on him and ask him to get back together. Also, keep it short. Five or ten minutes should suffice.<br /><br />If you are still in love after this amount of time, you need to consider making more fundamental changes.<br /><br />For instance, do you need a makeover? Would a new hairstyle or new clothes attract him back? Do you need to lose a few pounds?<br /><br />Also, consider whether there were aspects of your personality that drove him away. Were you always nagging him? Did you drop all of your own friends and hang around with him exclusively? You may have been crowding him.<br /><br />If you have identified areas where you can change, you need to do them. It may take time, but if he is truly in love, break up won’t last.<br /><br />But, you also have to be prepared to move on. Fortunately, any changes you make to win your ex boyfriend back will also help you attract a new guy. For instance, learning not to nag a man will help you keep any new boyfriend. And, your new more glamorous self will be sure to attract lots of attention.<br /><br />Use the time between boyfriends to find out what you really want in a man as well. What was it that attracted you to your ex? Did these qualities hold on over time or did they annoy you after a while? Did you go for someone on the basis of looks only to find out that made for a very vain man? Did you like his sarcastic sense of humor only to find out that he turned it on you?<br /><br />You should also use this time between boyfriends to figure out what you want in yourself. What can you improve – not for the sake of a guy – but to make the quality of your own life better? This may mean getting back in touch with your girlfriends, taking up a class, or going to church again.<br /><br />Remember, a <strong>love break up</strong> happens. Sometimes you can get back together and sometimes you can’t. The important thing is to be able to roll with the punches and move on to the newer, better you.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-88399987915050678482009-12-27T05:41:00.000-08:002009-12-27T06:00:42.533-08:00How To Win Your Ex Back When Youre Suffering From The Pain Of A Break Up<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGqXitCIkhwvCDB7hX4JQiQciTao9LJmTCBY_pXR5-2pm39vcIoq6NQRiinYywZq5dEI2n86EyayXCHdaGbcpIsCNd4pZuw4HbSwiHzTJTHXmRdHgd4JJPtYS_m0pYSnZXkigPownChldI/s1600-h/happycouple4.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 170px; height: 188px;"alt="happiness" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGqXitCIkhwvCDB7hX4JQiQciTao9LJmTCBY_pXR5-2pm39vcIoq6NQRiinYywZq5dEI2n86EyayXCHdaGbcpIsCNd4pZuw4HbSwiHzTJTHXmRdHgd4JJPtYS_m0pYSnZXkigPownChldI/s400/happycouple4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5419915519887551362" /></a><br /><strong>How To Win Your Ex Back When Youre Suffering From The Pain Of A Break Up</strong><br /><br />If <strong>you are suffering from the pain of a break up</strong>, here are a few tips on <strong>how to get your ex back</strong> and still retain your dignity. The last thing you should do is go out and chase your ex to <strong>try and win them back</strong>. Your ex probably needs some space. You can very likely<strong> win your ex back</strong> by backing off,as more than likely, your ex will realize they made a mistake if you don't apply pressure.<br /><br />What does not applying pressure mean? It means <strong>do not call your ex</strong>, do not text your ex, do not email your ex, and absolutely do not beg <strong>your ex to take you back</strong>. Instead, back off and let nature take it's course. Yes, <strong>you are suffering from the pain of a breakup</strong>, but you have to back off.<br /><br />After a week or so, if your love hasn’t made any contact, it is now okay to do it yourself. But be casual about it. Drop them an email saying “how are you doing?” Again, don’t overdo it. You don’t want to seem too eager.<br /><br />Just as there is power in romantic relationships, there is a power balance in a break up situation. If you give up your power by chasing your ex, you actually lessen your chances of getting them back.<br /><br />If the situation was a minor blow up, you may be able to win your ex back by stepping back for a few days and then dropping a casual hint that you are still interested.<br /><br />But, if a month or so has gone by and you’re still not back together, it’s time to step things up. By this time, he or she has probably started thinking about new partners. Now, it’s time to really learn how to win your ex back.<br /><br />It is very important not to crowd your ex, even when you are pursuing them. Don’t stalk. It is okay to show up where they hang out from time to time, but be prepared to pay attention to other people besides your ex.<br /><br />You should also consider contacting your ex from time to time in a casual way. For instance, you could email them saying “I walked by the park where we flew kites that time and it made me think of you. I miss those days.” Also, make sure that you always remember their birthday with a card or small gift. This will let them know that they are still on your radar.<br /><br />One controversial tactic is to ask one of your ex’s friends out on a date. Then text your ex and ask him or her where the friend would like to go on the date. This will make your ex think that you are moving on and make him or her question whether they really want to be broken up.<br /><br />It is okay to date other people while you are broken up, but you should refrain from sleeping with them. Your ex may consider this a final sign that the relationship is over. So, be true to your love even though you have broken up.<br /><br />And that is <strong>how to win your ex back</strong>.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-5845716268124413432009-09-30T04:19:00.000-07:002009-09-30T04:23:47.211-07:00How To Get Your Man Back If He Has Walked Out On You<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKualfSXFUgn7O8k_nG61vk-kA94QmddYRNiP-O6EcAJ1anv1z_xdASYmd60CWb4PN6sJ2czVjyN3hm9Ivd-f-sVsvtI4BIVJt2KEaOTcAHkDdohyphenhyphenrSJPxFr0p5uWXg_0DqsYQCH0-OvmN/s1600-h/happycouple7.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;"alt="happy people" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKualfSXFUgn7O8k_nG61vk-kA94QmddYRNiP-O6EcAJ1anv1z_xdASYmd60CWb4PN6sJ2czVjyN3hm9Ivd-f-sVsvtI4BIVJt2KEaOTcAHkDdohyphenhyphenrSJPxFr0p5uWXg_0DqsYQCH0-OvmN/s400/happycouple7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387218874106136066" /></a><br />So your man has walked out on you? Do you find yourself thinking only about how you can get your ex back? If this is the case, then you need to stop being so emotional about it, calm yourself down, become rational, and come up with a workable plan to get your man back.<br /><br />The first thing you must do, and the hardest by far, is to realize that even though you want to get your man back, he may not feel the same way. Perhaps the relationship has become an endless cycle of makeup and breakup, and he has decided that he wants out. No matter how much you want and need him back, it doesn't matter because he has decided that the relationship needs to end for good.<br /><br />The next thing you must do is to take a long hard look at the relationship as a whole, not just the bits and pieces that bring back happy memories. You are going to have to put away the rose colored glasses and analyze the entire relationship. Is it good for you? Is it good for HIM? If you need outside help to do this, then by all means do so. If you do not want, or can't afford professional help, then choose a close friend or relative that will give you honest opinions, not just what they think you want to hear.<br /><br />While you are in this stage of your plan to get your ex back, you are going to have to become rational and logical, and stop acting on your emotions. Get yourself under control and stop doing things that make the situation worse like: texting him, calling him, and trying to force him to see you. Don't appear needy. Not only that, don't BE needy. This is probably the most crucial step in this process.<br /><br />Instead of obsessing over the breakup, get yourself together. Get out and meet new people, take a class, work out, meditate, just do whatever it takes to get yourself in a calm state so you can formulate a logical plan to get your man back. You can only do this if you approach the whole situation in a calm state of clarity.<br /><br />Once you have reached a state of clarity, you need to ask yourself, "do I really want my man back?" Way to often, people think they want to get their ex back, and only a few weeks later they realize that it was a huge mistake. Some people can't stand to be alone, can't take being single, and they reach out for the most relationship thinking this will save them from the pain of loneliness. Don't make this mistake. Remember that, if your ex is avoiding you, he might have thought about this and realized that you are not good for him. If this is the case, then it doesn't matter how much you want to get your man back, it isn't going to happen.<br /><br />If, after doing all of the above, you come to the conclusion that getting your man back is the right move for you, then you should call him and talk to him in a calm and rational manner. Perhaps you can meet with him, but do so in a neutral, unfamiliar place with a lot of people around, which discourages both of you from becoming emotional.<br /><br />Be aware that your man may not be ready to talk to you, and your move in this situation is to back off for the time being, tell him you understand, and give him time before you contact him again. In the meantime, continue living your life and keeping yourself busy.<br /><br />If you follow the above plan and keep yourself in a calm and rational state, then you will have an excellent chance of getting your man back, if it is right for both of you.<br /><br /><p>Get more information on getting your ex back by visiting <a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic of Making Up...Click Here</a> </p>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-53572647842646297402009-09-28T07:08:00.000-07:002009-09-28T07:29:03.754-07:00Tips On How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHEgP2o1zDkNPFNYC980zUG_Eowa-Jc9L5WaUt8idwpViqO9mGxl3lJ5Q9Cm4yizN50sEKDfJPKl1ZNVEZ3oxXfZC3m_PAHd-qZQuJd27e-gJ__j38CICPqvT9nDSj52XN-CoGVZMoU7k-/s1600-h/happycouple6.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;"alt="ex boyfriends" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHEgP2o1zDkNPFNYC980zUG_Eowa-Jc9L5WaUt8idwpViqO9mGxl3lJ5Q9Cm4yizN50sEKDfJPKl1ZNVEZ3oxXfZC3m_PAHd-qZQuJd27e-gJ__j38CICPqvT9nDSj52XN-CoGVZMoU7k-/s400/happycouple6.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5386524952224272834" /></a><br />Getting dumped by your boyfriend is painful, and the pain extends beyond the initial breakup if you are still in love with him.. You may be desperately trying to find help on how to get your ex boyfriend back and following the tips I am going to outline for you will be a great start to winning him back.<br /><br />The absolute worst thing you can do is to act desperate. Being desperate and needy labels you as high maintenance and out of control. This is one of the big no no's with guys because they never know how you are going to act in a situation or react to a situation. If you want to drive your ex boyfriend away as quickly as possible, then acting needy and desperate is a sure ticket to reaching that goal. Since you are still in love with your ex boyfriend, then you need to at least appear that you are not needy and desperate.<br /><br />Another thing you should avoid at all costs is to appear that you are too readily available to your ex boyfriend. Show him that you have confidence in your self and high self esteem by getting out and about, instead of sitting at home obsessing over the situation. Make sure that your ex boyfriend understands that you are taking the break up in stride, and that if you two were to get back together, it will be on an even playing field.<br /><br />Another problem with acting needy and too readily available is that you set yourself up to be used by your ex boyfriend if you got back together, or by someone else. Confidence is everything, and a healthy dose of it will ward off those that are looking to use you, including your ex boyfriend.<br /><br />Another step to take is to make sure you are taking of yourself and looking good when you are out. If you don't usually eat healthy, start now. If you don't usually work out, start exercising now. Make sure you look good when you go out anywhere. Don't overindulge in alcohol. Even if you can't get your ex boyfriend back, taking care of yourself will give your self esteem a huge boost.<br /><br />Everything that I have outlined for you works best if you use it all in concert. Don't try to use just bits and pieces, put everything together and you will be well on your way to a confident attitude and an understanding of how to get your ex back.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More useful information on getting your ex back-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-86034914086544335032009-09-25T05:01:00.000-07:002009-09-25T05:04:45.983-07:00I Dumped My Girlfriend And Now I Want Her Back-How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhidmZdnPGm3zD9VzXC41uEbrSnugkZ3-Y7vDZP-2UycbFMxAR2xDaBEGdFEUGDaGiUEY9Fg-xrOhaKTzIFUuxrqU3YMN9vO8A8CM1xyY7J0icOEj1zRpjE0BF6CBoHMW-tHRwrPuMjeyHz/s1600-h/happycouple2.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 390px; height: 331px;"alt="couple in love" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhidmZdnPGm3zD9VzXC41uEbrSnugkZ3-Y7vDZP-2UycbFMxAR2xDaBEGdFEUGDaGiUEY9Fg-xrOhaKTzIFUuxrqU3YMN9vO8A8CM1xyY7J0icOEj1zRpjE0BF6CBoHMW-tHRwrPuMjeyHz/s400/happycouple2.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5385374397076363554" /></a><br />If you have dumped your girlfriend recently and now you want her back, you are going to have to move quickly and do so without making the classic mistakes that most guys make when they are trying to get back their ex girlfriend. A vast majority of guys who want to get their ex girlfriend back will find themselves doing anything to get her attention, from showering her with gifts, to a deluge of phone calls or text messages. Unfortunately, these tactics will usually not work, and could produce the exact opposite result. They are old hat, and your ex girlfriend is looking for something a little more innovative, and honest, from you.<br /><br />More than likely you have wounded your ex girlfriend's feelings and her pride, so you can expect her to look for a little revenge. This is just human nature, and depending on your level of commitment, you will have to put up with whatever your ex girlfriend throws at you if you want to get her back.<br /><br />You are probably going to have to explain to her why you dumped her, and you can expect that she is going to be looking for an apology. If you are smart, you will need to think all this through, before you meet with her, and try to get a handle on your own feelings and what caused you to break up with her.<br /><br />In many cases, guys panic when they feel that the relationship is getting to involved and they might think their girlfriend is looking for a commitment. The only way for some men to deal with this panic is to dump their girlfriend, only to realize days or weeks later that she was the best thing that ever happened to him and that he wants her back. Commitment isn't so bad, after all! <br /><br />Regardless of the whether or not you dumped your ex because of your "flight" instinct, you are going to have to explain to her why you dumped her and give her a valid reason. You are also going to have to apologize. Keep in mind though, don't allow yourself to become her punching bag or an avenue for her to take all her frustrations out. You can explain, apologize, and be understanding without allowing yourself to become a doormat.<br /><br />There is a good chance that your ex girlfriend still has feelings for you, and you obviously have feelings for her, so you will more than likely be able to work things out and get back with your ex girlfriend. Just make sure that you want to get your ex back because you want to be with her, not because you feel bad that you dumped her.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More useful information on getting your ex back-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-73824260444625556592009-09-24T04:19:00.000-07:002009-09-24T04:21:56.254-07:00To Win Back An Ex Avoid Making These Two Mistakes<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhX7koDGM7xTl-4-ek7ZZzxls8us9BDyKrKBrzXSzW7ezju9B5jh2WZN6h474Mj6B4PmzgImycn7n9fgOer0xeeJ2RhHvEEaW4zktJxtLrryWN_ODLg7e1w-14QVtTKcjHANvjW833Pt2nt/s1600-h/HappyCouple.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 330px; height: 240px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhX7koDGM7xTl-4-ek7ZZzxls8us9BDyKrKBrzXSzW7ezju9B5jh2WZN6h474Mj6B4PmzgImycn7n9fgOer0xeeJ2RhHvEEaW4zktJxtLrryWN_ODLg7e1w-14QVtTKcjHANvjW833Pt2nt/s400/HappyCouple.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384992400060519090" /></a><br /><strong>To Win Back An Ex Avoid Making These Two Mistakes</strong><br /><br />Why is it sometimes so difficult to win back an ex? No doubt you've tried your best to get your love back, but everything you've tried so far has ended in failure and now you're desperate and frustrated.<br /><br />Well the real answer of why it's difficult to win back an ex is really two fold. The first point is that once you've been dumped by someone you're still in love with the balance of power immediately shifts their way. The second point is that most people have no real idea what to do to successfully get back with someone they love and end up spending a great deal of time racing around doing all the wrong things.<br /><br />Truth is, once your ex has the upper hand in a relationship you can find yourself forever trying to catch up to them and both of you know it. If your ex knows that you want them back often times they will make you work to get them back and they will often enjoy the drama of putting you through getting them back. Plainly put, they have something that you desperately want and boy do they know it.<br /><br />To win back an ex then, play it cool! You don't have to declare straight away to your ex that you want them back. You simply keep that intention to yourself and make every effort to distance yourself from them.<br /><br />If you're reading this because you feel you know that your love is about to break up with you, then when the break up comes agree to it calmly and rationally and let them go. Don't give them a clue that you desperately want them to stay.<br /><br />When they've gone, work at keeping yourself busy and occupied with other things that are not centered around your ex and your relationship. Don't make yourself readily available to them to chat or do favors for them. If they call, be polite, chat for a couple of minutes, but make it clear you're busy and have places to go.<br /><br />Here's a warning for you! Many people faced with trying to distance themselves from their exs simply can't do it! They mistakenly believe that if they run around doing favors for their exs that their ex will see them as someone they need. They think they will be able to prove and show their exs how much they love them by being there for them! Wrong! This seldom works because all that happens is that the ex either gets fed up with them hanging around in their life or the ex will start to take advantage. So don't fall into that trap!<br /><br />Keep your distance and what will begin to happen is that you will feel the power naturally swing your way and you will be in a far better position to win back ex.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More useful information on getting your ex back-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-6566580042571024132009-09-21T04:22:00.000-07:002009-09-21T04:48:49.127-07:00How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back With 4 Easy Steps<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu6EGXR40Pxvi5kPl4RpznizxFDQYnq6myKfErD1x9ieEcxepFtucXosDWxdkN_QkeZylawulrqOz-0qT_P0JfnyFy0koNY12zVIQu2yjzKWbrEh6wDsDqiI_Wv4jJNwudjizeGykSWC5Q/s1600-h/happycouple8.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu6EGXR40Pxvi5kPl4RpznizxFDQYnq6myKfErD1x9ieEcxepFtucXosDWxdkN_QkeZylawulrqOz-0qT_P0JfnyFy0koNY12zVIQu2yjzKWbrEh6wDsDqiI_Wv4jJNwudjizeGykSWC5Q/s400/happycouple8.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5383886196097408594" /></a><br /><strong>4 Easy Steps-How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back</strong><br /><br />How long did it take for you to realize you wanted your ex girlfriend back? For some guys, they figure it out minutes after the break up occurs. For other guys, it may take awhile. Sometimes, guys don't figure out they need to plan how to get their ex girlfriend back until they are dating someone else. They soon realize that something is missing in their new relationship.<br /><br />Regardless of how long it took to realize that you want your ex girlfriend back, here you are looking for advice and a plan. Luckily, the steps are the same no matter when you came to this conclusion. But before you can go about formulating your specific plan, there are 4 steps you must take to prepare yourself.<br /><br /><br />1. Keep yourself fit and trim. When you are depressed or stressed, it is real easy to eat the wrong foods, stop exercising, and to drink too much alcohol. Don't do it. Stay with your exercise program and diet,and continue to exercise. If anything, you may want to exercise more, it will keep your head clear and your mind sharp. The bottom line is: it is easier than you think to pack on the pounds during a period of depression, so watch what you eat and exercise.<br /><br />2. Go out on the town and have some fun. This may be the last thing you want to do, but do it anyway. You are not actually in a relationship, so you are technically a free agent. Just don't hurt another girl because you are trying to make your ex girlfriend jealous. Explain to anyone you might meet that you are just out to have some fun.<br /><br />3. Take some time to reflect on your relationship with your ex. Think about what worked, and what didn't work. It's time to be honest with yourself about the circumstances of your break up and who played a bigger role in it. If you made some serious mistakes that caused the decline of your relationship with your ex, then now is the time to plan how you are going to change and what you are going to say when you talk to your ex again.<br /><br />4. When you're feeling emotionally secure and you've thought through the relationship and have a healthy perspective, make contact with your ex and talk to her. This isn't the time to put pressure on her, it's about contact only to see where she is at, what she is feeling, and if she is approachable and open to reconciliation. If you don't feel that she is, then retreat so may come back to try it another time.<br /><br />If you follow these steps as outlined, you will have a good shot at getting your ex back, if she is open to the possibility too.<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More useful information on getting your ex back-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-15551755125878488212009-09-16T06:04:00.000-07:002009-09-16T06:06:45.573-07:00Step By Step How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcRDC3hMpqEnICNb6-RYf5zZoMeAgXIobM4WMMsiXJRooeSxNOonv9YiY1drSsx3yS6_kysci7L6HrXUpiH5EHo9NzbDk3RcgPJP1FxWckBUwURTFaQalrfHQtKdzsF2pI9Zu9AnUc4GHW/s1600-h/happycouple2.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 390px; height: 331px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcRDC3hMpqEnICNb6-RYf5zZoMeAgXIobM4WMMsiXJRooeSxNOonv9YiY1drSsx3yS6_kysci7L6HrXUpiH5EHo9NzbDk3RcgPJP1FxWckBUwURTFaQalrfHQtKdzsF2pI9Zu9AnUc4GHW/s400/happycouple2.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5382050941560012146" /></a><br /><strong>Step By Step How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back</strong><br /><br />Understanding just <strong>how to get your ex boyfriend back</strong> can often be a hit and miss affair and it's no wonder, because as a rule we're not taught this stuff. We either have to make it up as we go along, or rely on our friends to help us out. But guess what? Our friends equally have no clue how to help us and they're also making it up as they go. But the reality is that it simply takes using a proven plan and then taking action on that plan, for you to <strong>win back your boyfriend</strong>. <br /><br />Your first step should always be to distance yourself from your ex and this is an action to preserve your sanity as much as it to make a statement to your ex boyfriend. This step will stop you fixating on your ex and give you the space to concentrate on your own needs and requirements to help you get through this stressful time.<br /><br />Make a serious attempt to reconnect with your family and friends and accept any help that will undoubtedly come from those who love and care about you. If you're serious about figuring out how to get your ex boyfriend back it would be a huge mistake on your part to isolate yourself. With people around you it means you're not sitting at home crying and obsessing about the breakup of your relationship or your ex boyfriend.<br /><br />Now, as you're spending time with family and friends, find out from them what they saw as the downfall of the relationship. I'm sure your boyfriend would've told you what he thought as he walked out, and you no doubt have your own ideas on what went wrong and why. However, sometimes it takes the perspective of an outsider looking in to make sense of a relationship. So if you seriously want to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back then ask others for their opinions.<br /><br />Your next move is to make sure that given what you've heard back from family and friends regarding their take on the breakup, that you now think for yourself. You either agree or disagree with what's been said and of course you're doubtless going to get different opinions from them all. So take some time to weigh up what's been said and the final decision is yours. Yes you started out wanting to get your ex boyfriend back, but is it still what you want? Perhaps you've heard some 'truths' that now put that quest in doubt? Perhaps you've had time to come to terms with the breakup and you can more readily accept it? Whatever and wherever you are, be clear on what you want before you make the next move.<br /><br />If you're still determined to go ahead and win him back, then your next move is to call him and to do so calmly and without emotion and drama and talk to him about the way you feel.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More useful information on getting your ex back-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-25861805698311142572009-09-15T16:03:00.000-07:002009-09-15T17:00:41.103-07:00How To Apologize To Get An Ex Back<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBMdo8k3XiNVEuVtcuk1mi79rOp0fQt5eC4kgmxoLYBuVF5LwIEn_swH7OqPJTk6m0lZAe0OUcV7x8QwKbj2c8wZ54oOHO04cIbADQZXbuIwdPWTF4lqFz0BDRhnvbR7RMZjvRDhXrfplI/s1600-h/HappyCouple.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 330px; height: 240px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBMdo8k3XiNVEuVtcuk1mi79rOp0fQt5eC4kgmxoLYBuVF5LwIEn_swH7OqPJTk6m0lZAe0OUcV7x8QwKbj2c8wZ54oOHO04cIbADQZXbuIwdPWTF4lqFz0BDRhnvbR7RMZjvRDhXrfplI/s400/HappyCouple.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5381848361540910274" /></a><br />So, your ex walked out on you. Now what?<br /><br />To get an ex back that has left you isn't rocket science by any means. Whether they walked out days or weeks ago, you will still use the same plan to try to restart the relationship. To get your ex back only requires you to be determined and to be sincere.<br /><br />The first thing you are going to do is try to figure out what went wrong, and what role you played in the break up. You are not going to play the blame game,you are going to figure out what you have to do to apologize. Remember, it takes two to tango, so you will need to be honest with yourself about your role in the break up and take your share of the blame.<br /><br />Once you have determined what went wrong, you are ready to formulate your apology. An effective apology consists of two parts: an explanation of why you are sorry and an explanation of how you are going to make sure that whatever events transpired don't occur again. If you can get both of these parts right, you will have an effective apology and could be well on your way to repairing your relationship.<br /><br />If you take the time to explain to your ex about why you are sorry for what happened, it means you took the time to figure out what behavior your ex found so distasteful. If you can't figure this out on your own without taking your own side, then you should have a trusted friend or a professional help you work this out. Another "set of eyes" will help you look at the situation from your ex's point of view, and this is a key ingredient in your apology.<br /><br />The second part of your apology, as stated above, is your plan to ensure that the situation doesn't occur again. Your plan should be well thought out and, once again, show no favoritism to either you or your ex. Your ex will, at the very least, be impressed that you have taken the time to think things through and that you are sincere.<br /><br />If you follow this plan and deliver a sincere apology, you stand a very good chance of restarting your relationship with your ex.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">Get more information on "How to get an ex back" by visiting The Magic of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-20537756773408277742009-09-13T05:10:00.000-07:002009-09-13T05:35:36.901-07:00How To Win Ex Girlfriend Back After She Dumped You<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdJgL5UkK3SLCbV075nPscjx1eoEFG8zDArci4NslUFaDGweJpJeQBCeNT7ERxbCTyhNUbL0pcNfumkMvx5RhoGU0pHduS4KTJbEK1RkflCCfVwISEaDWBVql7dafIY_rInLjYd4FvAnzA/s1600-h/happycouple7.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdJgL5UkK3SLCbV075nPscjx1eoEFG8zDArci4NslUFaDGweJpJeQBCeNT7ERxbCTyhNUbL0pcNfumkMvx5RhoGU0pHduS4KTJbEK1RkflCCfVwISEaDWBVql7dafIY_rInLjYd4FvAnzA/s400/happycouple7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380929260460040306" /></a><br /><br />Most guys have a major problem with the strategies to use to get an ex girlfriend back after she has dumped you. They think the "guy way" is best. It isn't. You need a specific plan. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to follow the advice of this article and stop and think about what you're doing.<br /><br />If you think lavishing your ex girlfriend with gifts is going to get her back, then you have another thing coming. Namely, loneliness! You need to step back, reflect, and break off all communication with your ex girlfriend. She dumped you, not the other way around, and apparently she had her reasons. In order to even have a chance at winning your ex girlfriend back, you have to give her some time and space. Lots of space.<br /><br />Instead of "stalking" your ex girlfriend, take this time away from her to reflect back on the relationship. Did your behavior play a role in the break up? If it did,and you want to win your ex girlfriend back, then you need to figure out how to change your behavior.<br /><br />Do you have anger issues? Trust issues? Maybe you should take the time to see a therapist, and together you can work these issues out.<br /><br />Maybe you have a problem with cheating? Did you cheat on your ex girlfriend even though you loved her? Then, you need to figure out the reason for this behavior before you enter into any relationship, let alone a renewed relationship with your ex girlfriend.<br /><br />The bottom line is, after some serious reflection on your part, you are going to have to get your act together, so to speak, if your truly want to win your ex girlfriend back after she dumped you. Sending flowers or giving her a couple of "I'm Sorry"s isn't going to work this time. If your girlfriend dumps you, then she is willing to sacrifice the relationship, and you are going to have to change your behavior.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More useful information on getting your ex back-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-16146004526509745762009-09-03T06:30:00.000-07:002009-09-03T06:33:29.448-07:00Im Still In Love With My Ex But I Think Its Over For Good<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisz3K-u_9c6YrmWApMrn6IB7DqVJylRzwpZiQJuO6EwR8umuLikXWPmOYTuMKw4cuSzsvomrmK2bZAXcQCCHpCNvGkyq7m75hL1ZmPb6y-cBjFtoriGcATHc1ZJk6iJn9iPSuFvD87h1ts/s1600-h/HappyCouple.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 330px; height: 240px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisz3K-u_9c6YrmWApMrn6IB7DqVJylRzwpZiQJuO6EwR8umuLikXWPmOYTuMKw4cuSzsvomrmK2bZAXcQCCHpCNvGkyq7m75hL1ZmPb6y-cBjFtoriGcATHc1ZJk6iJn9iPSuFvD87h1ts/s400/HappyCouple.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5377233597374353042" /></a><br /><strong>Im Still In Love With My Ex But I Think Its Over For Good</strong><br /><br />If you're saying “<strong>I'm still in love with my ex</strong>,” but you feel like <strong>it's finally over for good</strong>, then you need to stop looking on dark side and think positively. There are plenty of relationships that look as if they're over, but the reality is that people find a way back together. <br /><br />Before you launch into a full on attempt to win back your love, make sure your relationship is a relationship that should be saved! Too often relationships that should remain dead are revived with dire consequences. So ask yourself this: “did your relationship involve physical and or emotional abuse?” If the answer is yes you need to accept that this kind of relationship is best left over with. Instead work at restoring any eroded self-esteem and move on.<br /><br />However, if your relationship was simply a falling out, misunderstanding or maybe a loss of trust then that is completely recoverable even if only one of you wants it, you just have to find the right course.<br /><br />What's good about declaring “<strong>I'm still in love with my ex</strong>!” is you no doubt had a really strong relationship with your ex and if you feel that you're still in love with them, then chances are they feel the same about you.<br /><br />Provided some weeks have past, you should take a moment to call your ex and ask if you can have a talk with them. Don't make it sound as though you are begging and pleading for the meeting, just make it sound as casual as you can. <br /><br />Arrange for the meeting to take place somewhere neutral where neither of you will be tempted to cause a scene or let your emotions take over. If you are really seriously stating that “I'm still in love with my ex” then you will need to take some time to figure out what you are going to say to get them back.<br /><br />You don't need to take notes, but you need to have it clear in your mind. So be sure to take some time to figure out why you want your ex back. Yes you're still in love with them and that in itself is a good reason, but try and give your ex tangible reasons why they should take you back.<br /><br />Talk about your dreams and aspirations and explain to them where you see them fitting into those dreams and aspirations, however don't make the mistake of making your ex the be all and end all of your dreams. Don't put yourself in a position where if they don't agree to the reconciliation that your dreams are ruined. You don't want to come across as needy and fixated, you just want your ex to know that there is a real place for them in your life.<br /><br />You then need to give your ex the space to express themselves and you need to listen to what they say. Do all of that and your declaration that “I'm still in love with my ex” should give you a reciprocal answer from your ex.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More Information-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-65800785943999139652009-09-02T07:57:00.000-07:002009-09-02T08:01:48.107-07:00What Can I Do To Save My Marriage You Ask<strong>What Can I Do To Save My Marriage You Ask</strong><br /><br />If you're looking around wondering “<strong>what can I do to save my marriage</strong>” then you're no doubt in a dire situation as your marriage has hit rocky ground.<br /><br />Without a doubt there needs to be a period of reflection before you can launch into a plan to answer your search, “<strong>what can I do to save my marriage</strong>?” Failure to stop and think and map out a plan means that you might very well end up going down dead ends and around and around in circles. So reflect and get a plan.<br /><br />If you haven't already done so, you should talk to your spouse. Find out what they think of the situation and if they believe there is anything worth saving of the marriage. With any luck you both agree that you both want to <strong>save your marriage</strong> and you decide to go forward together.<br /><br />You are then faced with either trying to figure things out on your own, going for marriage counseling or searching online for one of the many ebooks that are available and that will answer your question <strong>“what can I do to save my marriage?”</strong><br /><br />If you opt for marriage counseling you should consider that this process can be long, expensive and you really have to be prepared to open yourself and your marriage up to an outside third party. Not only that, you have to be lucky enough to find a therapist who will gel with you and your spouse in order for the process to work really well.<br /><br />You could both try to work things out between on your own and sometimes this can work really well. However, you should be aware that you do run the risk of making things worse because you might not be entirely sure what you're doing or how to go about it. Not only that, you and your spouse will naturally take your corners and hold onto positions that you have, whether they are right or they are wrong. It's human nature to protect yourself and that might not always be the right way for you to go forward to find ways “to <strong>save my marriage</strong>.”<br /><br />The other alternative is to use one of the many ebooks that are online. This can really be a break through choice for a lot of couples because it usually involves going at your own pace, paying a one off fee and getting step by step practical guidance about how to really <strong>save the marriage</strong>.<br /><br />Without a doubt it is always easier to have your spouse on side and the two of you rooting for the marriage, but choosing the right resource to save the union is also crucial!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More Information-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-42365318545597810812009-08-31T03:58:00.000-07:002009-08-31T03:59:39.363-07:00How To Win Your Ex Back Using Simple Reverse Psychology<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ5ZdXlnWCNGvAwg6WJVAr9eEe1Q_zG4HWiB_ebB8epdJ-Ue2NRzi_3u-5LzTMV-Zdnf3C6rNBfdeDl9Ji5f8XsKkKcegebzGrTYU_MyFkxvT6eK8huFuz_SiYBHbWGBzY1rFKkNiH6RR3/s1600-h/happycouple7.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ5ZdXlnWCNGvAwg6WJVAr9eEe1Q_zG4HWiB_ebB8epdJ-Ue2NRzi_3u-5LzTMV-Zdnf3C6rNBfdeDl9Ji5f8XsKkKcegebzGrTYU_MyFkxvT6eK8huFuz_SiYBHbWGBzY1rFKkNiH6RR3/s400/happycouple7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5376080152467505186" /></a><br /><strong>How To Win Your Ex Back Using Simple Reverse Psychology</strong><br /><br />Figuring out <strong>how to win your ex back using reverse psychology</strong> might sound complicated, but it really isn't. All it means is using some straightforward methods that are designed to get your ex to sit up and take notice of you instead of ignoring you.<br /><br />Your first step towards <strong>how to win your ex back</strong> involves you determining to make no contact with them. That means no texting, no calling and definitely no trying to see them. This might seem counter-intuitive to your ultimate goal, but look at it this way: if you stop calling your ex, especially when they've made it clear that they don't want to be contacted, then you appear calm, mature and in control of yourself. Once your ex begins to see you this way you are immediately more appealing than the desperate person you were who was bombarding them with calls.<br /><br />Furthermore, this <strong>simple reverse psychology</strong> means that once you have stopped trying to make contact with your ex, then immediately your ex begins to wonder just what you're up to. They start wondering why you're not pursuing them and just like that you're on your spouse's mind and you're in their thoughts, which is just where you want to be.<br /><br />Your next psychological move when you're trying to figure out <strong>how to win your ex back</strong> is to get out and about and have some fun. This is going to be another tough undertaking, but it beats staying home night after night on your own struggling to stop yourself from contacting your ex and thinking about them. So force yourself out there and make some new friends or hook up with old friends. <br /><br />You've stopped calling them and you're out and about enjoying yourself. Once word gets back to your ex, they'll be surprised at how well you're coping. They might even be jealous because it appears, you don't have time for your ex and it's basic human nature to want that which is scarce and that's exactly what you will become. Just like that, you've become someone who is desired and not someone to be avoided. <br /> <br />Taking the steps towards understanding <strong>how to win your ex back</strong> really means looking after yourself first and foremost. When you concentrate on your own requirements first and foremost, without obsessing about what your ex wants and what you should do to please them, then you inadvertently find yourself using these simple forms of <strong>reverse psychology</strong> without even realizing it. So you see, it is not a complicated process and you will find that your ex will respond to you in a more open and amenable way.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More Information-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-47377644751453918602009-08-30T06:13:00.000-07:002009-08-30T06:18:27.695-07:00How You Can Save The Marriage By Creating Intimacy<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTZYD-2KOUI-TMYE2H7RfoFhE0QqctgYbTyjqqDzkdBuwiMQ1Fk4bo94p5yAX96W0wdsQ_GSCodeXVB5xZSxT5oZVRC354au_0Tgy_Ew1jKaURWYD1GuYTAlhU6t6Dc8sBqVYpMDOQMYLS/s1600-h/happycouple2.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 390px; height: 331px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTZYD-2KOUI-TMYE2H7RfoFhE0QqctgYbTyjqqDzkdBuwiMQ1Fk4bo94p5yAX96W0wdsQ_GSCodeXVB5xZSxT5oZVRC354au_0Tgy_Ew1jKaURWYD1GuYTAlhU6t6Dc8sBqVYpMDOQMYLS/s400/happycouple2.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5375745435478037874" /></a><br /><strong>How You Can Save The Marriage By Creating Intimacy</strong><br /><br />When your marriage hits rocky waters you must firmly believe that <strong>you can save the marriage</strong> in order to <strong>save the marriage</strong>. If you don't believe that as fact, then there is nothing you do that will make a blind bit of difference. So right now, believe that it is possible for you to save the marriage. <br /><br />A common missing ingredient for marriages in trouble is a lack of intimacy. For a marriage to be happy there must be a level of intimacy that goes beyond the physical and wholeheartedly embraces the emotional. Ask yourself this, “<strong>does my marriage suffer from a lack of intimacy</strong>?”<br /><br />Are you open and transparent with your spouse? Do you share and include or do you exclude and keep your emotions and emotional needs locked away and try and deal with things on your own? If you exclude your spouse emotionally, then your marriage lacks intimacy and it's time to inject some and get on the road to save marriage.<br /><br />Make sure that you're making every attempt to share your problems and worries with your spouse. Too often people find themselves worried and preoccupied with a situation. Instead of sharing this situation with their spouse, they decide to try and deal with it on their own. This is a big mistake because it excludes your spouse when you should be including them.<br /><br />Remember, spouses can very easily sense when something is wrong and if you exclude them, they quickly begin to feel shut out and redundant and that's when hurt can quickly find its way into a marriage. <br /><br />Another way to inject intimacy into your marriage so that you can save marriage is to make time for your marriage. In this day and age when a thousand and one things can encroach on your time, not making time for your marriage is a surefire way for a marriage to hit trouble. It's no fun discovering that when you were busy carving out a career or focusing your time on attending to the kids, that your marriage just shriveled up and died.<br /><br />Make sure that if you want to <strong>save the marriage</strong> that you're actively making time for your spouse and your marriage. Once in a while take an impromptu afternoon off and have some fun with your spouse. When your spouse realizes that you value them to the extent of changing your schedule to include them, you will begin to see an improved difference in your marriage.<br /><br />Creating and fostering intimacy in your marriage so that you can save marriage will take time and is an ongoing process. Don't ever make the mistake of allowing your marriage to be left set on auto-pilot. A healthy and intimate marriage is one that is attended to regularly, only then will it thrive.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More Information-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-14932429993712430572009-08-28T03:45:00.000-07:002009-08-28T03:48:35.946-07:00The Ways To Get An Ex Back In Your Arms<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3GgmlYaMB5_M_T76fvzkvEQ6KyLqMrcru5wkd6P4UdWsga2xjZjZCG-tDSvt_2sUUSPIs6EePwQLu3Efx17vGI09uDYj6X60mu-_1_oGZs9KgSE3ZXf8HV7qARlh_JcOVPdTSInYc13rJ/s1600-h/happycouple8.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3GgmlYaMB5_M_T76fvzkvEQ6KyLqMrcru5wkd6P4UdWsga2xjZjZCG-tDSvt_2sUUSPIs6EePwQLu3Efx17vGI09uDYj6X60mu-_1_oGZs9KgSE3ZXf8HV7qARlh_JcOVPdTSInYc13rJ/s400/happycouple8.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5374964650032561506" /></a><br /><strong>The Ways To Get An Ex Back In Your Arms</strong><br /><br />If you've been dumped and you're looking for <strong>ways to get an ex back</strong> then I have to say that kicking and screaming, begging and pleading is not the best of ways to get ex back. Instead you need to make sure you closely follow what I'm about to lay out for you.<br /><br />Always one of the ways to get ex back involves appearing to be in control of yourself and not acting like a desperate and needy out of control victim. So, if you've been accused of being needy, then now is your chance to show them that you're far from that.<br /><br />It might be too late, but if it isn't and your ex is simply talking about leaving, then as soon as they mention that they're leaving, make sure you agree the breakup. Sounds like the opposite to what you want, but if you let them go and you do it calmly and without drama, then your path to getting them back is going to be a lot smoother.<br /><br />Once they're gone, you're going to have to do what the experts call 'No Contact!' That means just what it says. The best ways to get ex back is always to make sure you're not bombarding them with text messages and calls. If your ex has heard nothing from you since they walked out, then it doesn't make them forget you, it makes them miss and wonder what you're up to.<br /><br />Getting on with your life after they have gone is a crucial method to use when you're trying to figure <strong>ways to get an ex back</strong>. Not only is this a good way to keep yourself busy, but it is also a great way to put things into perspective. Nothing will help you with your judgment and confidence more than being in a social situation and having some fun with others, so get on with your life.<br /><br />After you have given yourself some time to think and adjust, guess what, your ex has had the same amount of time to calm down and reassess their decision too. You should have been out of contact with your ex for at least a month before you decide the time is right to make contact with them.<br /><br />Phone them up and have a very short and casual conversation with them. Ask for a meeting somewhere neutral, but don't make it sound like a big heavy deal. Remember you are trying to find <strong>ways to get an ex back</strong>, so no emotional manipulation.<br /><br />At the meeting explain you've had time to think and you would like to apologize for any mistakes you've made. Tell your ex your feelings for them haven't changed and you would like another chance. Always give your ex space to say what they think and how they feel, and listen carefully and sincerely to what they have to say.<br /><br />Once you've said your peace, tell your ex that you're going to give them time to think things through and then leave.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">For More Information-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-6216751009031934692009-08-26T04:02:00.000-07:002009-08-26T04:05:54.551-07:00How To Get Back With Your Ex When All Looks Lost<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-t60XSMvE79pQSXG88Kp1K9l4Zg0U64voQ-wA3G2Ptuwfg2Ox5dRueT718W9Y2b20tCpKLt-anJT3S6W2O9fIMpZOCOC3MxqwLlawrDiz825YP9Y7Brtl7AmthHwta8v1PCkHtvTMnrFI/s1600-h/HappyCouple.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 330px; height: 240px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-t60XSMvE79pQSXG88Kp1K9l4Zg0U64voQ-wA3G2Ptuwfg2Ox5dRueT718W9Y2b20tCpKLt-anJT3S6W2O9fIMpZOCOC3MxqwLlawrDiz825YP9Y7Brtl7AmthHwta8v1PCkHtvTMnrFI/s400/HappyCouple.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5374226643305004322" /></a><br /><strong>How To Get Back With Your Ex When All Looks Lost</strong><br /><br /><strong>When all looks lost</strong> and you're trying to figure out <strong>how to get back with your ex</strong>, one of the things you need to hold onto is that 95% of all relationships that look as if they're well and truly over, need not be. There is always hope, all it takes is for at least one person wanting to save the relationship and it can be saved.<br /><br />The first key to figuring out <strong>how to get back with your ex</strong> is to leave your ex alone for at least a month - if at all possible longer than a month will work even better. So break all contact with them and give your ex plenty of time to think things through.<br /><br />Often times in the heat of the breakup things get said and positions get taken that given time, are soon relinquished as reasoning takes over. So if you want to get to the heart of how to get back with your ex then seriously, give yourself and your ex some time.<br /><br />If you don't allow for this space to think and you continue trying to push the issue to <strong>get your ex back </strong>before the time is right, then what will happen is that the more you push, the harder your ex will push back. Remember, your ex has walked out on the relationship and clearly demonstrated that they need time to think and be left alone, give them that time.<br /><br />If you're worried that <strong>all looks lost</strong> because your ex is dating someone else, then you need to remember and hold onto the fact that a lot of rebound relationships just don't last. Chances are your ex is dating that person as a way to convince themselves that their relationship with you is really over. However, just because they're trying to convince themselves their relationship with you is over for good. Guess what? It doesn't mean that it is.<br /><br />It is a statistical fact that rebound relationships are fraught with difficulties and very rarely work because the person on the rebound is still emotionally connected to their ex. So don't waste a whole lot of time worrying about someone your ex is currently dating. <br /><br />The truth is <strong>getting your ex back </strong>is more about the two of you than anyone else, so make sure that you keep on top of your appearance, you're not doing anything to alienate your ex and that you're appearing in control and pretty soon you will have stopped wondering <strong>how to get your ex back</strong>, because they'll be back with you.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">Find More Information-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4544616871318165129.post-9405604155998884042009-08-24T11:46:00.000-07:002009-08-24T11:48:08.883-07:00How To Win Back Lost Love From Long Ago<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAncHzTqoYcfGwErsK4ZvxMMfCXdiqUSp219ltEuGPxuu9mKLpWG9fDxxX4HR_Rt7cbGNJy9f0bI8aRCIt5BTSiDRrP0UrcKPhsVHVFEMKPeqEgeOXhlaU-00zYt92nyn3Fqyl-ypzU_Av/s1600-h/happycouple3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 312px; height: 240px;"alt="happy couple" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAncHzTqoYcfGwErsK4ZvxMMfCXdiqUSp219ltEuGPxuu9mKLpWG9fDxxX4HR_Rt7cbGNJy9f0bI8aRCIt5BTSiDRrP0UrcKPhsVHVFEMKPeqEgeOXhlaU-00zYt92nyn3Fqyl-ypzU_Av/s320/happycouple3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5373603943167614322" /></a><br /><strong>Win Back Lost Love From Long Ago</strong><br /><br />If you want to win back lost love that is from a long time ago there may be an uphill battle ahead for you. If you are like many, you have reached a point in your life that you realize that things might have been better for you if you had taken that other path. You thought the grass was greener on the other side and then realized that it was an illusion. You realize that the love you had a long time ago may be what you are missing. Here are some things to think about when you want to win back lost love from long ago.<br /><br />First, make sure that there is nothing in your life right now that may missing out on. The mistake you may have made in the past was that you didn’t take advantage of the opportunities that you had at that moment. Make sure that you don’t make the same mistake again by missing out on something potentially good. If you hate looking back and thinking what you may have missed out on now, try to prevent it from happening again. It’s better having love now and to not have to try and win back lost love later because you were too blind.<br /><br />Second, realize that they may have moved on. Just because you are discontent with your present and are longing for what could have been with the love from long ago doesn’t mean that they are. You could cause yourself and them more harm than good. If they are happy and content, let them be. If they have moved on, it’s a good sign that you should and not be concerned with winning back lost love.<br /><br />Third, understand that people change over time. Things may have happened in both of your lives that may have made you very different people. Don’t do this to try and relive what once was. Try to win back lost love because you believe that your future will be better than your present and even your past with this person.<br /><br />Fourth, start off slowly. If they aren’t expecting you to come calling and all of the sudden you are there constantly it may smell of desperation. You may be desperate and be somewhat obsessed about them but don’t let them know. Take your time and don’t let them know how badly you want them back, at least not for a while. Take the time to get to know them again and for them to get to know you. <br /><br />Lastly, think forward, not backward. What matters now is moving forward. You can’t relive the past but you can make a future with this person. As much as you may want to go back in time, you can’t. You lost it because one or both of you didn’t make the most of chances you were given and you are doomed to repeat it if you don’t take advantage of today. If you have a chance to start this love over or win back lost love, make the most of the moment.<br /><br /><a href="http://kimark421.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">Find More Information-Proceed To The Magic Of Making Up</a>Marcushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00238373667811829463noreply@blogger.com